Let’s take 2016 by the balls!

Happy New Year!!   *throws confetti and sips a mimosa*

I hope your 2015 was awesome, and that you’re gearing up to completely crush 2016.  I know I am.  I took a lot of time off last year for personal reasons, but I’m ready to get back in the saddle now.

CoCo beach

I had an epiphany last night in the middle of the night.  Yes, I know.  I don’t know why my moments of genius always come at 2am, but they do, which is weird because I’m SO not a night-owl.

But anyway.

I’ve decided that I’m not going to live in fear in 2015.  

I’ve been hesitant to fully engage in life for the past few months because of a personal issue, something I’m still battling to overcome—because I’m AFRAID that it might come back or recur.

And you know what?  That’s a dumb way to live.

If I spend my time worrying that it will come back, it’ll mar each and every day that I have, and so in essence, I’m ROBBING MYSELF OF JOY and I’m giving my fear power.

I’m not willing to do that, and I hope you aren’t either.  Fear is a choice, and I’m choosing to close the door on mine.

No matter what is troubling you, I hope that you choose to put it aside, to decide that you’ll handle it IF it should ever arise.  Don’t worry about it before it happens.

I’m ready to grab 2016 by the balls and make it my bitch– and I hope you are too!

Let’s DO THIS!!

XOXO–

CoCo

40 Things I’ve Learned in 40 Years

Sooooo, my 40th birthday was yesterday.

I thought it was going to be this big, terrible, scary thing, but you know what?  It wasn’t.  I feel good, I’m healthy, I’m in an awesome place in my life, and I’ve learned A LOT in this 40 years.  So much, in fact, that I wouldn’t go back to my 20’s if you paid me.  And I’m not even kitten you right meow.

40th Birthday, Courtney

I celebrated with a margarita lunch, and I wore a tiara all day.  I went to Epcot and wore a Happy Birthday button, so tons of people were wishing me a great day, and I dragged my kids and hubby to Medieval Times, because I’m nerdy like that.  (Why does the Green Knight always get to win?)

Medieval Times with Bella

I’m not gonna lie.  This past year was hard for me.  SO HARD because of personal reasons.  And you know what?  Life is like that sometimes.  You take your knocks.  You fight back.  You get knocked down, so you get up again, and kick life in the face and you keep going.  That’s what adversity and trauma teach you.  YOU CAN DO IT.  You can make it.  You keep getting up in the morning, and you just keep doing it.  That’s how you make it to better and brighter days.

I’ve learned a few other things in the past forty years, too.  In no particular order, here are 40 bits of knowledge that I’ve banked up:

  1. You can’t please everyone, so you just have to please yourself.  It sounds trite, but it’s true.
  2. Wear a Pashmina to the airport.  It doubles as a blanket if your flight gets delayed.
  3. Take care of your skin.  You’re not going to be 20 forever (thank God!) but having good skin makes you look that way.
  4. Be your own hero.  You can’t always count on someone else swooping in and having your back.  So you know what?  HAVE YOUR OWN.
  5. Chocolate chips will do in a pinch when you get a sweet tooth and three’s nothing else in the house.
  6. Sleep in when you can and order room service in your robe.
  7. You’re never too old for Harry Potter or DisneyWorld.
  8. Drink lots of water.  It keeps you pretty.
  9. What you put into the world comes back to you.  Karma is real, people.
  10. Blood isn’t always your family– it’s who you choose.
  11. What doesn’t kill you really will make you stronger. Or crazy.
  12. You can dye your hair 12 times in month and it won’t fall out.  Probably.
  13. You can never aim too high.  I mean it.
  14. No one is better than you, and you aren’t better than anyone.
  15. Laugh lines are totally worth it.
  16. If you rely on someone else to make you happy or to complete you, you’ll never be happy or complete.
  17. A good night’s sleep can literally make all the difference.
  18. Don’t judge yourself too harshly.  There are plenty of people in the world who will do that for you.
  19. To prevent a hangover, drink a glass of water for every alcoholic drink you have.  I’m serious. It works.
  20. Don’t drink wine and hard liquor in the same night, though.
  21. Your mistakes don’t define you.
  22. Use manners and treat others with respect.  it goes a long way.
  23. Don’t carry hatred.  The only person it hurts is you.
  24. If you don’t try, you won’t fail.  But you won’t win, either.
  25. Your kids will learn to value what you value.  So be a good role model.
  26. TRUST Y OUR GUT.  This took me 40 years to really get through my thick head.  Your gut will NOT steer you wrong.
  27. Invest in good shoes.
  28. Do things that scare you.  It will wake you up and make you feel alive.
  29. No matter how much money you make, save some.  Even if you aren’t making much money right now, save a little. Even $5 a week will add up eventually.
  30. You become like the people you surround yourself with, so choose them wisely.
  31. Ask for what you want and say what you need.  People can’t read your mind.
  32. Vacations are important.  Take them.  The memories you make with your family are priceless.  Your job comes second to them.  When you’re dead and gone, your job will just find someone to replace you. You are irreplaceable to your family.
  33.  Artificial foods/sweeteners can’t be good for you.  Don’t eat them.  Just use moderation with the real stuff instead.
  34. Comparison is the thief of joy. (<<– my BFF Michelle Leighton taught me this).
  35. Feelings aren’t facts.  When you get into arguments, don’t use them as such.
  36. Everyone has their own crosses to bear and demons to fight.  Don’t judge them.
  37. If you don’t have time to shower before bed, at least wash your face and feet.  You’ll sleep better. (See #17)
  38. Vulnerabilities and weaknesses don’t make you weak.
  39. Never ask if a woman is pregnant, no matter how much she looks like she is.
  40. It’s ok to paint over chipped toenail polish.

There you have it.  These are the things I can think of off the top of my head.

Age is just a number.  It really is.  Feel fantastic and do fantastic things.  That’s what matters. My goal now is to make my 40’s my b@tch.  My plan is to make it the best decade of my life so far.  I’ve never shirked away from anything in my life, and I’m not about to start now.

Watch out, 40’s.  I’m coming for you. 

I’m going to do the things that are still on my goal list.

I’m going to write the books that are bursting to get out.

I’m going to take more vacations.

I’m going to stress less about the things I can’t change.

I’m going to keep toxic things out of my life, and keep reaching for more knowledge, more grace.

I’m going to walk in the blood of my enemies.  << Ok, fine.  That last one was an exaggeration.  Lol.  But you get the point.

I’ve got this.  And no matter what point you are in life, or how old you are, so do you.

 

She believed she could, so she did

LUX Release Date

Hi guys!

Sooooo, I’ve been getting a lot of inquiries about the release date of LUX (book three in the Nocte Trilogy). I’m afraid I have some news that you aren’t going to like much.

The release date has been pushed back until August, hopefully the first couple weeks of August. I know. That’s so far away. Please don’t hate me.

There are a couple of reasons.

1. I’ve gone through what you might call a personal crisis. I’m ok, so don’t worry, but it put me on my ass for awhile. Today is the first day that I’ve actually been at my keyboard in weeks. It wouldn’t have been fair to Calla’s story to try and write it while I was so unfocused. Calla deserves the best story possible, and so do you. I’ll be back in the saddle again on Monday to finish up LUX and to start writing a couple other exciting projects.

2. Audible bought the audio rights for the Nocte Trilogy, so after I finish LUX, I have to wait 60 days after I turn it in to Audible to release it on e-book and in print. So even if I finished it tomorrow (which isn’t feasible), then I would still have to wait until June 29 to release it. That’s not going to happen. I’m probably a few weeks away from finishing it including the editing process, and then the release date has to be 60 days after I turn it in.

So, to summarize, I’ll be working hard to bring you the best possible conclusion of LUX. The story is all in my head– I know exactly what is going to happen…. and trust me, you won’t see it coming. I can’t wait to start writing again, and bring you this story.

Thank you so much for your patience with me, and I hope you’re having an amazing week!

XOXO,
Courtney

AL Jackson’s A Stone in the Sea!

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A Stone In The Sea (Bleeding Star Novels #1) by A.L. Jackson is out today!

In celebration of this AMAZING love story, I’m excited I can give you the chance to take part in this release day hop!

 Between 20 authors & bloggers, you have the chance to win 20 gifts from A.L. Jackson! That’s not including the GIANT giveaway on her page, so be sure to end your hop over with A.L. Jackson!  The catch is that the gift is a surprise…It’s easy to win, but you won’t know what you’ve won!

To win here on my blog, all you have to do is like my page on Facebook and share this post (make sure you tag me so I see it).   I’ll choose a winner tomorrow!


For a complete list of all the participants in the hop and to make sure you’ve entered all of them, go to A.L.’s Page
https://www.facebook.com/aljacksonauthor

 AND be sure to grab you copy of A Stone in the Sea! http://www.aljacksonauthor.com/books/a-stone-in-the-sea

For more chances to win, visit the next author on the hop,  Gail McHugh
https://www.facebook.com/AuthorGailMcHugh?ref=hl

Happy reading!

 

 

Before We Fall is in Target! Snap it and Win!

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Eeeepppp!!  If you go into Target today, and you stroll past the book section, you might see BEFORE WE FALL on the shelves.  Because it’s there!!

We’ve got an easy contest going this week.   Take a picture of the book on the shelves, post your picture to social media, tag it with #LoveNeverFails so that we see it.   Honestly, I’ll count a picture from the book on the shelves at any bookstore.  Because it’s really exciting to me.  LOL.

Just make you sure you tag it #LoveNeverFails so that we see your entry. You can post on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.

Happy Sunday!!